http://community.go-get-guys.com/ Feel free to discuss the most wackiest and wierdest why, what, how etc here. en Thu, 09 Sep 2010 02:52:51 GMT vBulletin 60 http://community.go-get-guys.com/images/misc/rss.png http://community.go-get-guys.com/ http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/162-Thanks-to-LoveSpell?goto=newpost Wed, 01 Sep 2010 09:48:51 GMT Last week i had serious fear and breakdown on my relationship issue,my man has been acting awkward for weeks nw,coming home late,picking calls away... Last week i had serious fear and breakdown on my relationship issue,my man has been acting awkward for weeks nw,coming home late,picking calls away from me etc,then he called me to say he was moving out,that we needed space apart,i knew wt that meant,so i tried all kinds of forum i could find on google till i saw this testimony about a love spellcaster in a love forum/blog.i reached him,this is my mail gabriella_monroe@yahoo.com,and this is his psychicpela@yahoo.com..we communicated,i told him my problems and he told me the solution..i did all he asked and i got my man back,its hard to believe but its true,now i belive in spirituality....thank you ]]> Ask and Answer Gabriellamonroe http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/162-Thanks-to-LoveSpell http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/161-Advice-for-an-odd-problem-sorry-rather-long?goto=newpost Mon, 30 Aug 2010 16:29:54 GMT I have got myself into a bit of a predicament, I have fallen back in love with my husband! We have been married for 9 years but have been... I have got myself into a bit of a predicament, I have fallen back in love with my husband!

We have been married for 9 years but have been separated for the last 4. He was a lovely man when I met him, he was happy, relaxed and caring, we got married and a year later had our first child, followed by our second 12 months later, our third 14 months later and our fourth 19 months after that. During this time he became sullen and moody and at times quite aggressive, though he never hit me, he was more verbally and sexually aggressive. After first child he tried to get intimate with a neighbour, and to her credit she turned him down (I will always respect her for that), after our second He did get intimate with a second different neighbour but told me himself, and it was a one off incident. When I was pregnant with our third child there were complications and I was in hospital for quite a while. During this time he had an affair which lasted quite a while, the first i knew of this was when I started divorce proceedings and I was approached by a woman who told me all, worried that she was going to named in the divorce and her husband would find out. After our fourth child he tried to get intimate with a 18 year old acquaintance who also turned him down, something that took a lot of courage for someone so young. When she told me of what happened, and I saw how scared she was, to tell me, I gained the courage to throw him out, I was scared as I was unsure of his reaction and not sure of how his aggression would show. He left quietly at first, but then it got nasty, ending up with him threatening to kill me and my family and police involvement, by this point he was having a relationship with a third neighbour and would visit her and not our children. That relationship only lasted a few weeks.

Over the years I have hated him for what he has done, for hurting me and splitting up our family. He has visited us once a week since then to see the children. His work situation has been such that he has rarely paid maintenance, though the CSA have not really helped on that side, by always taking so long to organise things. He has had a couple of one night stands but nothing more. He has often text and phoned me telling me how much he misses us and how he loves me. I have tried to have other relationships, but always half hearted, and usually mentally comparing them to my husband. So they never last more than a few days. I now work part time and am totally self-sufficient again. I also could never complete the divorce proceedings, it just didn't feel right.

That is the short version of the past, now for the present.

Over the past few months, I have watched my husband and noticed how he has changed, he has become less stressed and more approachable again, he smiles and laughs and does't snap at the children as much. He still continued to phone me and tell me he loved me, but there was something different in his voice, a calmness the voice that I realised I had not heard for a long while. As I am considering moving I invited him over one evening to talk, as it is the only time that we can talk without the children around, and tell him of my plans, this is something that we have always done so communication regarding the children stays open. We talked for hours and the usual discussion of how he still loved me came up, so I took the opportunity to explain how I was feeling, that I no longer hated him, that I do miss him, but that was it. He gave me no pressure and left with out pushing me for more.
A month ago I was listening to his usual "I love you" chat when it hit me, I still love him, so I told him so, he came straight over and we talked till the early ours falling asleep in each others arms. We decided to keep things platonic in front of the children, which was so hard as I just wanted to hold him, he was distant all day and wouldn't look at me, he phoned later and told me that he had felt the same and looking at me made him want to hold me too. This has been the case for the past few weeks.

This Saturday he came over to baby sit while I went out with a friend. She called off sick at the last minute, so we decided that my husband should stay anyhow as the children were expecting him to stay the night. At about 5 he said he had to go and so left. He phoned a little later saying he couldn't have slept here knowing that I was so close but still untouchable, I asked him to come back so we could talk further face to face, and he did. I was honest and told him how I felt how I still loved him, though was really scared by that thought, how I hated not being able to touch and hold and talk to him. we again talked well into the night, deciding in the end to try to start again, we slept in the same bed, I haven't slept so well in a long time. Yesterday we went out as a family, and it was lovely, he was still relaxed and held my hand, he was the man I married again. When the children noticed I explained that we were trying to be girlfriend and boyfriend again and that we will see how things go.

Now I am unsure of what to do next. Can a leopard change his spots? Is he likely to do it again or was it the pressure and panic of having the children that made him look else where? My family and friends dislike him for what he did to me, and I will get a lot of hostility to even the idea of our getting back together, let alone the reality of it. I just wish I knew what to do for the best, should i give things another try, and not worry about what everyone else thinks, or do what I feel is right?

Please give me some advice. ]]> Ask and Answer miranda http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/161-Advice-for-an-odd-problem-sorry-rather-long http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/160-His-spell-brought-my-ex-back-after-3-years-break-up?goto=newpost Mon, 30 Aug 2010 04:01:10 GMT Am Bagwell by name, I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I read a post of a man some years ago, this post talk about a powerful spell... Am Bagwell by name, I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I read a post of a man some years ago, this post talk about a powerful spell caster, who can help with any kind of relationship problem. I contacted this man, and he proved how powerful he was to me through the result of the spell he cast for me. My wife broke up with me for no reason for almost 3 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 2 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she's going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for months ...So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that.. At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution...so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she's with a man and that man is the reason why she left me...The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this...he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him to his personal email akinboyeayode@yahoo.com. good luck ]]> Ask and Answer bagwell http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/160-His-spell-brought-my-ex-back-after-3-years-break-up http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/158-In-serious-need-of-advice?goto=newpost Sun, 22 Aug 2010 08:58:38 GMT I'm in love with this girl...

She's a very good friend of mine and I once asked her for help to impress a girl on whom I had a crush. But later on I started liking her a lot. I don't know if I should tell her this. She has had breakup recently (I think !) and is probably still going thru that bad phase. I don't know how to approach her and tell her about my feeling. But I really do like her a lot. ]]> Ask and Answer djsds http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/158-In-serious-need-of-advice http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/155-Seriously-in-need-of-advice?goto=newpost Tue, 10 Aug 2010 16:18:53 GMT Hi everyone, Im in a bit of an ugly problem!! And i dont know what to do ... Ok heres my story... Last year i met this wonderful, amazing guy... Hi everyone,

Im in a bit of an ugly problem!! And i dont know what to do ... Ok heres my story...

Last year i met this wonderful, amazing guy online(facebook). He really was like my dream guy, he also flies, and loves the bush like i do. When we met, it was like bang and the love sparks flew!! I was inlove at first sight ....we went out for 5 months then he just ended things and made it my fault...

I struggled a lot with this coz i knew i did nothing wrong and everything seemed so perfect to me...i thought we would end up together, i really developed strong feelings for this guy...the strongest ive ever had...
7months later i found out that he cheated on me and lied to me about a lot of things...the right thing they say dont jugde a book by its cover, he had me fooled!!

Ok that episode behind me, i closed my heart up so good, im so scared to feel that sore again...
After a few months i met a new guy...also an awsome guy, also flies and love land rovers hehe same as me :) things went from friendship to relationship, and we have been together for 7 months now... but with him, i feel like somethings missing,i felt like this from the start... i dont know what :? i keep telling myself it will come... but i dont know if it ever will?

We are like 2 best friends, which i think is very important, we do everything together and enjoy our time together :) And i must add, he treats me like a lady must be treated, in the 8 months we have known each other he stil opens my door for me which im not used to.


Ok heres the tricky part....

I also met another guy ( only intentions is friendship ), we have been chatting for 2 months , not a lot coz i hav a guy and so on...also coz i see my bf as the person i wana do everything with...but ok...we met last week, and had a wonderful time together, drinked coffee and chatted ...after a while we went to play ten pin boaling which we laughed a lot ...
It was really a relaxing time...but the funny thing is with him i felt that something extra..i dont know if that is normal?

My heart is confused!!! How do we know who is the right one in our lifes? I dont know how to handle this situation...my dad said go and enjoy the evening, nothing wrong with having friends, (ok i did that and enjoyed it) and when the right one crosses your path youll know....mmm yeah right...i dont!!

Ok whats crossing through my mind the WHOLE time is, what if this new guy is the one? what bout my bf?? I love him dearly! And he has done so much for me!! Been really good for me...And i dont want him to get hurt, and i surely dont want him to think i used him coz i DIDNT!! I will also never cheat on my bf, thats just wrong...

Please help me!!!

Seriously in need of advice... ]]> Ask and Answer Robi22 http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/155-Seriously-in-need-of-advice