http://community.go-get-guys.com/ Lets discuss dating, revive relationships and learn a bit more about lazy love. en Thu, 09 Sep 2010 02:34:44 GMT vBulletin 60 http://community.go-get-guys.com/images/misc/rss.png http://community.go-get-guys.com/ http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/157-A-relationship-study-that-offers-extensive-feedback?goto=newpost Sun, 15 Aug 2010 20:29:45 GMT Hi everyone,
I'm a graduate student at the University of Rochester, New York and am currently doing a project on intimate relationships as a part of my dissertation. It would be great if you could help me by completing my online study, and inviting your partner to do the survey too if he or she is interested. Your participation is greatly appreciated. Feel free to contact me if you have any questions.
Thank you in advance for your time!
Soonhee

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In a relationship?
At least 18 years old or older?
Have a partner who might do a survey with you?

Psychology researchers at the University of Rochester are looking for couples in romantic relationships (from dating to marriage) to complete a short survey.

Who am I?
The Interplay of Self & Partner Identities in Relationships Study is:
-- VOLUNTARY
-- COMPLETED ONLINE
-- SHORT (takes 25-35 min to complete)
-- Involves you and your partner both participating (at separate times)
-- Assesses both conscious (self-reported) and subconscious (implicit) attitudes
-- Offers extensive INDIVIDUAL FEEDBACK on your personality and your relationship
- 7 dimensions of personality (yours and your partner’s)
- 5 dimensions of how you see yourself
- 5 dimensions of how you see your partner
- 6 dimensions of relationship quality

Explore your subconscious: This feedback will contrast how you see things (yourself, your partner, your relationship) at a conscious level to how you see things at a subconscious level (using implicit assessments).
-- Includes optional follow-up surveys every 3rd month
- Brief surveys (10-15 min)
- Occurring 3, 6, 9, 12, 15, 18, 21 and 24 months after the initial survey

IF INTERESTED
visit: www (dot) couples-research (dot) com
and find
Who am I? The Interplay of Self & Partner Identities in Relationships Study ]]> Love Lessons hapybride1 http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/157-A-relationship-study-that-offers-extensive-feedback http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/156-Need-some-understanding?goto=newpost Wed, 11 Aug 2010 09:22:11 GMT Hi everyone, Im in a bit of an ugly problem!! And i dont know what to do ... Ok heres my story... Last year i met this wonderful, amazing guy... Hi everyone,

Im in a bit of an ugly problem!! And i dont know what to do ... Ok heres my story...

Last year i met this wonderful, amazing guy online(facebook). He really was like my dream guy, he also flies, and loves the bush like i do. When we met, it was like bang and the love sparks flew!! I was inlove at first sight ....we went out for 5 months then he just ended things and made it my fault...

I struggled a lot with this coz i knew i did nothing wrong and everything seemed so perfect to me...i thought we would end up together, i really developed strong feelings for this guy...the strongest ive ever had...
7months later i found out that he cheated on me and lied to me about a lot of things...the right thing they say dont jugde a book by its cover, he had me fooled!!

Ok that episode behind me, i closed my heart up so good, im so scared to feel that sore again...
After a few months i met a new guy...also an awsome guy, also flies and love land rovers hehe same as me things went from friendship to relationship, and we have been together for 7 months now... but with him, i feel like somethings missing,i felt like this from the start... i dont know what :? i keep telling myself it will come... but i dont know if it ever will?

We are like 2 best friends, which i think is very important, we do everything together and enjoy our time together And i must add, he treats me like a lady must be treated, in the 8 months we have known each other he stil opens my door for me which im not used to.


Ok heres the tricky part....

I also met another guy ( only intentions is friendship ), we have been chatting for 2 months , not a lot coz i hav a guy and so on...also coz i see my bf as the person i wana do everything with...but ok...we met last week, and had a wonderful time together, drinked coffee and chatted ...after a while we went to play ten pin boaling which we laughed a lot ...
It was really a relaxing time...but the funny thing is with him i felt that something extra..i dont know if that is normal?

My heart is confused!!! How do we know who is the right one in our lifes? I dont know how to handle this situation...my dad said go and enjoy the evening, nothing wrong with having friends, (ok i did that and enjoyed it) and when the right one crosses your path youll know....mmm yeah right...i dont!!

Ok whats crossing through my mind the WHOLE time is, what if this new guy is the one? what bout my bf?? I love him dearly! And he has done so much for me!! Been really good for me...And i dont want him to get hurt, and i surely dont want him to think i used him coz i DIDNT!! I will also never cheat on my bf, thats just wrong...

Please help me!!! ]]> Love Lessons Robi22 http://community.go-get-guys.com/threads/156-Need-some-understanding